A project manager’s guide to Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day. You either love it, or loathe it. Every year you’re guaranteed to read on various social media platforms about hero partners that have gone all out and made the day amazing or zero partners that have failed to deliver even the most basic of surprises.
One year in my naïve youth I had a boyfriend that suggested we go out for dinner on the day. Only to find out when we got to the restaurant that he hadn’t booked and was very surprised to find there was no room and no – they couldn’t just squeeze us in. On saying that, the smoked sausage supper from the local chippie (fellow Scots will know what I mean) was pretty good.
So how can you be a Valentine’s Day hero? By using your project management skills to plan and execute the perfect event for your partner or spouse! Here are some tips to help you avoid being a Valentine’s Day zero.
Plan in advance
Don’t be like my poor old boyfriend and try to organise something at the last minute. You’ll likely find that the restaurants are fully booked, flowers sold out (and/or extortionate pricing) and the couriers are so busy that your gift will be delivered three days after the big day.
Set your budget
Everyone I know has got a tale of being ripped off on Valentine’s Day. Whether it’s a surprise bunch of red roses that ended up costing the same as a weekly shop or an over- expensive meal that was mediocre at best. The best way to avoid an unexpected bill is to plan in advance. Florists will give you a price over the phone and restaurants have menus online. That way you can plan a lovely day that is within your budget.
Know your stakeholder
No-one wants to receive an unsuitable gift and end up in the returns queue on the 15th of February. It sounds obvious, but pick something your sweetheart will like. Not something you’d like them to like. All my girlfriends (and some boyfriends) have at least one example of a Valentine’s Day gift that was more for the giver than them.
Have a disaster recovery plan
Especially now, when the dreaded COVID is still hovering, plans can change on the flip of a coin. Have a back-up in case the unexpected happens. Food delivery services can be a good option if you can’t get a restaurant booking. Even in COVID times as most are still delivering under the red setting. If you are buying a gift, do it a few days beforehand and hide it so there are no last minute panics when all the good chocolates have gone!
If you want to make sure you’re a Valentine’s Day hero, apply your project management skills to the job – plan and prep. It’s a guaranteed no fail and you will (both) enjoy the project benefits!